Happiness and Me

Do I want to be happy? The answer is obvious, I want that feeling. In addition, I would also like to feel loved, appreciated, and valued. I have the same basic human needs and the desire to feel fulfilled in these areas is a normal part of my emotional makeup.

Yes, I deserve to be happy because I am alive and kicking. Not in the classic sense but in a biological fashion. I am built in a way to use happiness as a tool to assess the world that environs me. It’s in my genes, in my nature, to be happy.  Happiness is at the core of my experiences – it is as unintelligible to deny myself the feeling as it is to deny the practice of eating or sleeping or breathing. Happiness is a vital part of my survival.

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Yes, I deserve to be happy because my pain is not useful to anyone. The more I grieve and suffer, the less I grow, and the less I connect. When I am miserable, I shrink into the second-rate versions of myself. When I am happy, I thrive. I love to burn brightly enough to light up those around me, and my life takes on a stronger, more consequential rationale.

Yes, I deserve to be happy because I am not my past. I am not the choices I made or the chances I took when I didn’t know better than to take them. I deserve to be happy because the past cannot be distorted but the future’s still wide open. There are a thousand better roads left to walk down. I deserve to be happy because the people who have made the most errors have the greatest ability to warn others away from those mistaken paths.

Yes, I deserve to be happy because there is no sense in not being myself. The more I hide, the more I shake, the more I run away into the hushed recesses of existence, the more I deny the world the power that’s within me. And the world deserves that power. It deserves the encouragement of people who come alive through what they hope for. The world doesn’t need people half-fulfilling someone else’s dream: It needs people who are fully embodying their own and I want to belong to this group.

Yes, I deserve to be happy because the voice in my head is telling me otherwise is fear. And fear has no notion of the exactness. The truth is that happiness wants me– in all of my flawed, defective splendour. It wants me to come as I am, leave my baggage at the door and take a chance on becoming more myself – the version that I have always been too terrified to be. I deserve to be happy because happy people make their lives substance – and what else can I ask for than that.

I find the positive things in life everywhere I seem to be. I can always find motivation to be happy. I do good things and try to help others, too. By making others happy, I know that I deserve great happiness as well. I know what I want and I am willing to take the required actions to make it happen. Today, I am looking for even more reasons to be happy. No matter what the world has told me, I deserve to be happy.

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InstaCuppa French Press Coffee Maker


Growing up, I never thought I’d turn into a coffee drinker. I just couldn’t stomach the stuff unless I added some kind of artificial creamer and loads of sugar. Once I grew a bit older, however, coffee quickly became one of my favorite things. At first I drank a cup a day, then I progressed to two, and now I’m hovering somewhere around three and a half.


A coffee maker is important part of every household. Here is a Instacuppa French press coffee maker, Coffee is brewed by placing the coffee and water together, stirring it and leaving to brew for a few minutes, then pressing the plunger to trap the coffee grounds at the bottom of the beaker. To make the best morning coffee, you need it. This is one of the best budget coffee makers you could find. It can make up to a capacity of 600 ml worth of coffee at a go. This could serve six cups of coffee just in one brew. Having this capacity helps in saving time when making coffee for all since you don’t have to refill it many times.


Instacuppa French press coffee maker has high quality metal filter that leaves little to no grinds in your brew, creating the perfect cup of tea or coffee in under 4 minutes. The maker has an extra tough heat-resistant borosilicate glass carafe that doesn’t break as easily as the others, and high-grade 18/8 stainless steel components that keep rust at bay. The 600ml capacity allows to brew up to 6 cups in just one pressing.  All the materials used in the manual coffee tea maker are FDA-approved. The coffee never comes into contact with any plastic during the brewing process, leaving the taste completely natural.


It has a smooth plunger mechanism that makes for effortless use. It makes up to 6 cups in just one pressing. It is heat resistant handle for comfortable handling. It is Easy-to-pour spout and dishwasher safe components. It has Beautiful mix of glass and high-polished stainless steel. Count on this glass coffee French press for a mix between delicious brew, durable quality and head-turning aesthetics. To buy now you can click here.


If you dont like coffee, but you like Tea, Instacuppa has products for Tea lovers too like the InstaCuppa Green Tea Detox Bottle – Double Walled Glass Edition.

You’ve probably heard a lot about the health benefits of drinking tea, especially the benefits of green tea, considered by many to be the ultimate “anti-aging beverage.” In Okinawa, Japan — one of the world’s “Blue Zones” that’s associated with longevity —drinking green tea daily is considered “essential.” The bottle has double wall glass provides strength and good look. On the other side the lid (bamboo look) is holding tight so that there is no leakage even after putting upside down. The provided sleeve is good to retain temperature.


Infused Water is also known as Detox Water. For creating infused water, all you need are some fruits or veggies or herbs. The idea is to keep these immersed into water and add on some nutrients from the veggies/fruits to make the water more beneficial and power-house of nutrients. InstaCuppa offers two variants of their Infuser Bottles.

1. Tritan Edition

2. Thermos Steel Edition

You get free digital eBooks with 100 fruit infuser water recipes for Weight Loss and Detox. These are natural fruit infuser recipes to drink instead of sugary soft drinks! Impress your friends with flavorful, tasty and healthy water. Get infusing right away with the handy digital eBooks included with your detox water bottle. The infused water consists of natural antioxidants and vitamins in addition to fruit flavors but without sugar, so that they don’t add up to the calories. The plastic used is high grade plastic so that one can be ensured of clean and odorless use over it’s timeline of use. 

They are good for summers wherein keeping ourselves hydrated is so crucial due to excessive sweating. The best part is, there’s no wrong or right way of using these pitchers to curate your own detox water with whatever veggies or fruits are lying in your pantry. Detox waters are really popular these days and have high nutritional values.

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Expect to suffer -#Superbloggerchallenge2018

An expectation, which is a belief that is centered on the future, may or may not be realistic. If something happens that is not at all expected and you like it, it is a surprise. A less advantageous result gives rise to the emotion of disappointment and you will suffer.

Buddha stated “that suffering is an inherent part of existence; that the origin of suffering is ignorance and the main symptoms of that ignorance are attachment, craving and expectations.” Everyone expects something from someone and on not getting it there is a sense of disappointment. Expectation is an integral human emotion and if you say you don’t expect then I would say that you are not humane.

I am good with someone if he/she is good to me, and I am not talking about love over here. Even in love people say that it’s about giving and not expecting, I will be blunt and say to those that go and talk to the one who didn’t get what he/she wanted in love, talk to those who failed in love even after giving everything to their lover. In love there are expectations, I would ask those who are love tell me don’t you expect your other half to love you the way you love him/her, isn’t there a craving that he/she should love you more than anyone else in this world, that my dear is expectation and nobody humane can say he/she doesn’t have any expectations.

I expect a lot from people I care about, from my friends, and I do get disappointed and then suffer a lot on not getting what I want. I expect a lot and that has caused me a lot of pain over the years, and now that I can stop being possessive but I can surely muster enough courage to say that I would stop expecting, and I no I am contradicting myself here as I said no one can say she doesn’t expect, I will say I will stop expecting a lot and will expect very less, that I think is possible.

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Escaping Bad mood phase

Whenever I find myself in a bad mood, there are certain things that will instantly boost the mood. Some may give you some ideas for what you could do if you ever find yourself in a bad mood.

I think I speak on behalf of everyone when I say that music can change your mood quite instantly. Getting up, signing your heart out and having a little boogie can really boost that feeling, it does for me anyway.

Whether it’s learning something new or fixing up a DIY project, being productive can be a good distraction and get yourself focusing on other things. I love searching the internet for new things I can learn or create, Pinterest is the best for these sort of things.

Just a change of setting or an adventure in a new place you’re yet to discover. I love going out, exploring and finding new and beautiful places that happen to have been sitting on your doorstep all along.

Putting on your favourite movie is always a good move, especially if it’s a happy or funny film. Just relax and get cosy on the sofa, and watch one of favourites or a good series perhaps.

Something which you’ll often find me doing is going through old photos of my childhood, past holidays, or maybe just a memorable day I’ve had before. Nothing makes me more happy that looking through photos reminding me of my childhood.

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Café- my way of life- #Superbloggerchallenge2018

One of the appealing things I have recently fallen in love is cafe culture. The fact that one can go and sit in one of these places for hours on end. People go and sit there working, reading, using their laptops and i-pads and most of them provide free wi-fi, eating, drinking, talking, socialising. They are places to meet, places to live- simply places to chill out. One can just sit happily for hours, watching the world go by. No mad waiter is there to tell you to leave and go once you have finished your eat.

I love Starbucks, warm, welcoming and they smell, ohh-so-good the roasted coffee, soft baked cakes, roasted cheese and just-out-of-the-oven bread and cakes. I like sitting there watching people out of the windows, curled up with a book, or just my thoughts.

Coffee shops occupy an important space in many of our lives because of their unique ability to fulfill so many of our needs in an atmosphere that suits our tastes and makes us feel like we belong. At their best, coffee shops are places that meet the needs of a community, while giving communities the space they need to get together.

When everybody is running short of time, these are the places where one can sit and relax and take a break from life. Where one can just be alone, but definitely not lonely. Where one can stop and smell the coffee and enjoy the munches.

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Children of tomorrow -#Superbloggerchallenge2018

The qualities shown by a child often indicate of what the child is going to be when he grows up to be a man. What the child indicates is what the man will be. All the qualities, physical, mental and spiritual which will be found in the grown up man may be found in a germ in the child.

The habits and traits of a man are often only the development of the habits and traits he had as a child. Look at a child carefully and you can often foretell into what kind of a man or woman that child is going to develop. The truth of the saying that the child is the father of the man, at least in most cases will hardly be questioned by anyone who has observed life carefully. In a case of tree also it is possible for us to tell beforehand how the tree will grow. If the young plant is strong and straight we can say that it will develop into a strong straight tree. Children brought up in families which have some strongly marked diseases or moral weaknesses nearly always grow up with those marked diseases or moral weaknesses. On the other hand, children homes where the influences are healthy, nearly always grow up into men and women of strong character.

The truth of the statement is borne out by the lives of many men and women who have left a name behind them. It is said of Michelangelo, the famous sculptor and painter, when he was a child he used to amuse himself by making drawings on the paint pots, easel, stool and other such things of an old painter who said – this boy will beat me one day. The words of the old painter came true, for Michelangelo was true to the promise of his early days and became one of the greatest sculptors and painters of the world.

But on the other hand we have seen all instances of children brought up in environments conducive to their character, who behaved in a manner in keeping with their surroundings as long as they were young but changed the course of their ways as they grew older until they became false men.

Inspire of apparent exceptions, however, we can say without much fear of being contradicted that what the child is shows what the man will be. Even in cases where men showed remarkable powers later in their life, of which they gave no evidence of their childhood, we shall find on close inquiry that the qualities which distinguished them when they became men who possessed by them when they were children, although these qualities did not find scope to show themselves. Misunderstanding, unkindness, poverty, disease and other such causes often prevent a child from showing his qualities which he will posses when he becomes a man.

The child, then, is father of the man though it may not always be apparent. This being so how much depends upon how a child is brought up. Bring up a child in the ways of honesty and uprightness and the probability is that the child will grow up into an honest and upright man. Influence of birth and position may count for something, but the influence of education counts for far more. Let us be careful not to despise little children. Let us rather treat them with regard and understanding, and help to develop in them those qualities which make good citizens and upright man, for the child of today is the man of tomorrow.

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