Conversations

Who doesn’t like good conversations? I believe conversation is food for the soul. Every good conversation starts with good listening. One doesn’t need a lot of people to talk with , well that for me would be chaos. The smaller the circle, more the fun. # conversations #good talks

Like it or not but conversations cannot be avoided nor ignored. One interacts with people on a daily basis and its necessary to an extent  because that’s when you feel you’re active and ticking. Now , how long the conversation extends depends on one’s ability to accept , respect and tolerate the opposite person’s viewpoints and them as a person  on the whole. That’s where the beauty and skills of a person lies. Nobody likes to talk to a  person who brags,disrespectful , who uses double meaning words . I mean, admit it , it’s a huge turn off! And there are some  basic etiquette to be followed during a conversation like treat everyone with respect, remember to say Please and Thank you, don’t interrupt others while talking and the most relevant thing to do  in today’s world is, “ DON’T LOOK AT YOUR MOBILE PHONE OR TALK CONTINUOUSLY ON THE PHONE WHEN YOU ARE CONVERSING FACE TO FACE WITH A REAL PERSON UNLESS IT’S AN URGENT MATTER”. People fail to do this .

Conversations shouldn’t be of a serious nature, at least for me. It should be free flowing, spontaneous and more or less on topics that both the persons enjoy to speak on.  In short, it shouldn’t be boring.

And talking about speaking, whatever language or tone   it is that’s opted for speaking , should be clean and respectful and never demeaning one another. I think everyone should agree on that aspect. You can’t converse with a person with ill manners and oh yes, the grammar should be perfect ( for me at least). Is that asking for too much?

Talks need not be on a daily basis but when you do talk with that person, there shouldn’t be a feeling of distance or ‘no-topic’ issue😕else it feels like we are doing an obligation sort of by speaking to them and vice- versa which in my opinion isn’t a great thing! If you do have one such person to talk with  who brings out  the best in you , who is willing to bear your mood- swings, who bears your nonsensical  topics, who doesn’t have ego issues , believe me , they are keepers. And this feeling  should be the same for them too  else it’s just a dead end of talks!!

Positivity, good vibes, a great chemistry should develop when we in are in conversation with the opposite sex. It need not happen instantly as everything takes its own course of  time but one should get a feeling of happiness and satisfaction and not feel as though you’re  mentally and emotionally drained.

And even if you do not have any such person in your life to share and talk out your problems , it’s completely OK to be alone rather than being in a stressful friendship/ relation cos no one can understand you the way you do yourself and one need not explain and chase people just for them to be in your lives.

Being alone is also a power in itself.

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About the Guest writer:  Savitha is an aspiring writer, Tea addict, Music is her love and she is a compliment lover. She can be contacted on Twitter and her Blog.

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