False accusations and gossip can destroy lives, even if the accused is innocent. If your reputation is under attack ask yourself what you would like to see happen in order to clear your name. Is there anything that anyone can do that could ever make the situation better? Don’t try to address every accusation. If you decide to start defending yourself, that will become your full-time job, if you answer every story, every piece of gossip, every allegation in your life, that’s all you will ever do. You will be completely consumed by this and it will take over your life. Don’t draw attention to yourself defending the rumor. You need to give yourself permission to just live your life. If there are people out there who think something about you that you don’t like, then those won’t be your friends. There will be other people who will like and respect you for who you are, and they will be your friends. Don’t fall into the trap of acting out with non-directional frustration. The stress that comes with being wrongly accused can lead a person to act out with those closest to them, like a spouse or child. Remember that the enemy isn’t your loved one; it’s an outside force.
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