Post 8 – Accessories & Attraction

For me an accessory is one of the things which we carry from earlier years to still now. Accessory of an object is to make the object more efficient, useful and to improve its features and to make it look stylish.

When it comes to us accessories are major things to show off. What is the reason for you to wear an Accessory? Obviously, you like it, and to attract some folks, to look unique, and the last and main reason is to show your attitude.

Some people use accessories to show the character which the person intended to become and hides the real character of that person. For example a person who looks like a rude guy because of his accessories but his real character will be very polite.

The reason to attract somebody is to make them know your presence and make them to look at you. Nowadays most of the boys are trying to attract girls and most of the girls are trying to attract boys through the accessories. So the accessory is a common thing for both.

Nowadays we are been influenced to do that, it is not our mistake it came from our ancestors. But there is a difference now the Accessories are available for both girls and guys to attract opposite sex. What’s the difference says is, after some struggles to get freedom for women as like as freedom of our country there are some changes in our society.

Even though it is a male dominating society, some freedom is there for girls. Girls are doing many things as like as guys and in some areas they are doing even better than guys. Now guys are trying to attract girls as like as girls did in earlier years. So we both are trying to attract opposite sex through our outlooks and accessories and in many ways.

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Post 7 – Brainstorming

Very recently, I had a conversation with a friend in a very disturbed state of mind and I realized these facts about that specific mind and those of all of us in general…

•Our minds are as complex as hell.

•The more we try to block out something in our mind, the more it works against you.

•Share. If we don’t, one day it will all explode massively.

•You can be helped by the people you trust.

•Though you think you want to get over whatever personal dilemma you’re in, sometimes you really don’t because you take pleasure in the pain those thoughts bring you.

•You can be helped only if you truly want to be helped.

•Laughing off your problems may seem to work but seldom does.

•You know you can’t run away from your problems, but want to try anyway.

Seems like a random bunch of sayings I already knew, and I’m sure you did too, but that one conversation sure put it into perspective. Hey you, may the force be with you! 🙂

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Blogging Statistics

Every morning, I wake up hoping that the number of views on my latest blog post has gone up from the number that I saw the night before- even if it’s just by few views. Sometimes I’m met with an unchanged number and infused with disappointment. Other mornings, I awaken to a magically re-moulded digit; A number changed from the one that was there 10-12 hours and a whole day earlier. Blogging statistics excite me. I’m filled with immense joy knowing that someone out there took the time to read the words that I wrote. Blogging statistics serve as validation and an indication of something good that I’ve done. I’m devoted to my blog; I’ve involuntarily invested my heart into this space. To me, a comment isn’t just a comment and a view is not just a four letter word. To me, it’s a ‘thumbs up’, a pat on the back and a job well done and you should see it as that too.

Each number represents two eyes, a nose and a mouth. I’m also starting to think that people who say that ‘statistics don’t matter’ already have their desired statistics.Your stats may vary from mine, which is perfectly human. But, to put sweat, love, dedication and the occasional tear into your blog, and then go on and say that the way it is received doesn’t matter isn’t how I see it. You’d be lying.

Caring about blogging statistics does not mean that you’re blogging for the wrong reasons. I often don’t see my statistics changing, but I’ve never quit blogging because I enjoy the process of writing, meeting other bloggers online and being a part of this inclusive, supportive and dynamic community that I’ve come to love. It’s possible, and dare I say normal to care about your blogging stats and still be blogging for the ‘right’ reasons.

So, yes, I’m going to press publish on this post in a few minutes from now and I’m going to keep scouring my statistics for indication that I’m doing something right, something good and something worthwhile. I’m going to cross my fingers and hope that someone values my words enough to leave a comment because I’m selfish and it fills me with an incomparable joy to see interaction within my blog.

What are your views on blogging stats? Do they matter to you or not? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

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Post 6 – A whisper that calmed the Divine madness

In a state of Divine madness

as I ventured out;

so I wandered about

in quest for Divinity…..

And before 

 any immoral stroke of unenlightenment

had its moments

the Divinities set ashore

saving mine

just in time

consciousness….

from going astray

and reading me in whisper……

their message…….. of Humanity.

 Dear Divine seeker !

…don’t be ‘insane’

go walk the path of Humanity;

be humane.

Your life

conceived by humankind;

squandering away seeking Divinity

do not ill-define.

Owe it (your life) to humans;

serve Humanity

reciprocate all tenderness

and much humility.

 Intent on making this 

   the purpose of your life 

  and let your soul rest in me

 for all the while.

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The copier

I was excited about being a full time writer, but I never wanted my magazines success to come at the expense of others ideas whose ideas my ‘boss’ had ripped off – especially if that means me and it were mine.

I knew plagiarism existed but when I got a first-hand experience of it, I knew it was my last day there.

I had not gone even started and my boss already stole my article.

Over the years, I have written at length and always recognized for my work.

I decided to make a living as a freelancer again.

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