I wonder whether we are experiencing something else and just naming them love. Is it something which is so intense? Which if it ever enters into your life, then every moment will be beautiful? All fears will end, absolute fearless.
I have a simple question for you. What is love? This is what we need to question. Are we loving in right way? Or it is not what we call it, love is something else? I wonder whether attachment is being considered love by us. Is attachment love?
We say, I love studying when we top up. And when we get failed miserably, for over 4 years, then we start saying, I hate education. Do we really love education or love being a topper?
And that is not even love, but an ego satisfaction by defeating others. When we win by defeating others, we start calling them love. Winning, is it love?
You are in a relationship with someone and there you both are arguing with each other in order to prove beloved wrong, is it love? Think deeply!! You all think too that
Love means profound attachment, like we are very attached to our mother or any person, think deeply! Is it love?
Can there be love if there is attachment? Who do we call attachment? What is attachment?
Attachment is when we possess, for eg, the boy is mine, the girl is mine, so is there love?Think deeply! Question that!!!
Is attachment love, or is love something that has nothing to do with attachment.
For eg, I take the responsibility of his/her life, so taking responsibility is love? Get the point!!
Can there be love if there is possession? Attachment is all about possession. Eg, the house is mine, the car is mine, the wife is mine, it has been possessed, hasn’t it? The children is mine!!Is there love?
Possession at which level? Try to make out when I speak of something, not at the physical level but at the level of your mind. So we are getting attached to somebody in the fear of loneliness, so is that love?
Eg your doing job somewhere, and there you are afraid of being fired from job, what would happen to me if I get fired from job? So you really love that job? Get the point!! Use your brain, is that love?
What we call love is an addiction , don’t you think? Get the point!! Use your brain!!
In addiction, do we care of what others(beloved)likes and what does not? Or we care only about what we like and what does not?
The moment beloved speaks of something that we don’t like, then it starts dragging us into quarrel n fight. Is it true or false? Its true, don’t you think? What we are calling love, is that really love? Is there love? Think about it deeply
Drinkers even says that I love whiskey or whatever, I love the cigarette, it happens right? So is that love?Many of us, who has got addicted to smoking, doesn’t multiple thoughts run through your mind to give up smoking?Multiple thoughts keep on running through our mind to refrain from smoking, doesn’t it? It happens with everybody. It clearly shows that they don’t love smoking. Instead they hate it, but got addicted to it.
This inquiry is very important, I will say extremely important. So the next generation to come is gonna dependent on us. They shall be dependent on your understanding , about what is love? Isn’t it? Mindset needs to be fixed. Or else you’ll keep torturing your child in order to make them yourself or somebody else and you wont even be honest with yourself, wont even tell truth to yourself that you have nothing in your life. You will feel bitter to hear this but try to comprehend the thing what I m saying if you can get it.
If a guy is not happy with his life. Due to what he is unhappy? What’s the reason? He is unhappy just because of his own thoughts. He thinks that he couldn’t become what he wanted to be is the cause of his sadness but in actual fact, his thoughts is the cause of his sadness. Got it?
He who doesn’t love himself, can he love anybody? got it!!
How many people are there who love their life very much, he who is unsatisfied with life. Can he love anybody else? He will want to use a person to satisfy himself and will give it the name of love.
I say I love my country, we say we love our country, do we really love our country? If we really love our country,
Country means street, we shall keep it clean if we love, shall follow traffic rules, wont do anything wrong in system, that means we love our country. But we don’t love our country, we are just saying that we love our country. In addition of an intense feelings and excitement, we keep on saying that I love my country.
So , is feeling love? Is sensation love?
Somebody gives us an amazing sensation, get pleasures, so we start giving it the name of love, when we get it. And when we no longer get that pleasures from that person, and starts receiving that pleasures from somebody else. Then we start saying, I love somebody else. We leave them. Is that really love.
So neither feeling is love nor thought. We can create numerous love as much as we want at the level of thoughts. Terrorist has been doing the same thing. They might be wrong for you but not for themselves, that’s why they are doing it. They wont do that if they were wrong for themselves. They thinks that whatever they are doing is right. Why are they doing it? Cause they love. Whom they love? They love their thought. The thoughts due to which feelings is being triggered within, I’ll do that. Motivation such as I’ll do that, they love it. Is that love?
Divorces case happens! The couples who were mad for each other, today they both are making great efforts to run each other’s life, which has no limitations. I’ll ruin his life, I’ll ruin her life. Where is it coming from? Is it coming from love? Can there be scopes of hatred if there is love?
Needs to be understood what love is, cause we’ll never be able to experience it if we don’t know about love. Or else we’ll start calling feelings a love, sensations will be called a love by us and due to that feelings, does our life get better or worse?
What is feelings? It is kind of sensation, isn’t it? can there be feelings without sensation? I touched my hand, so I felt it. So is feeling love? Is sensation love? Is thought love? Think deeply
You get some sensation from something n you are attached to it what you call love. Would that make your life more better or worse?
you say I love this food! Do you really love that food? You want to leave that food. But you are not able to leave that food. You want to leave that burger and that sauce spread over it wants to stop but you are not able to leave that, cause of taste. You are getting attracted to it, cause you get some kind of great feelings and sensations from that and we say that food was delicious.i enjoyed eating it. So is pleasure love?
What we calls LOVE, there is certainly our selfish motive in that. You’ll comprehend it if you look deeply into yourself. Despite that fact, we give it the name of love. What if we don’t have any selfish motive? can we be able to love truly? Can we love dear truly? Can we bale to see what they want?
When can we see that? when can we see beloved’s need? When can we care them truly? We can do that only if we have no selfish motive. When can we give true happiness to others? When can we make them happy? We can give them only if we are fully happy. It clarifies that one cannot love truly if one is searching out for love. True love is when you are the very source of your own happiness.
You were yearning, craving for something for long time that it should be happened n fortunately that happened. As the desire fulfilled then what happens is, we undergoes some temporary feelings and sensation, that feelings are temporary, comes and goes away. But after that, there we experience an intense satisfaction within ourselves. For some hours or day. Getting this?
You were yearning for something or somebody or ambitions or desire or dreams or objects like mobile, craving for mobile or whatever it is. What happens is that we get mad on getting that. We start feeling awesome! Goes crazy. OMG! My dream is coming true, I m getting that mobile.
So you seem to understand that ultimate happiness is in that mobile but if you gift that same mobile to any rich guy who is very wealthy which is nothing for him, they wont even smile to see that. .
What did you gift me? Is this a mobile?you should have given a better one…
Why did you give me $50,000 mobile, why did you not give me mobile of $1,00,000 . so it is worthless for them. But you got made on getting mobile of worth 50,000 as u had a mobile of worth 5000 so you seem to understand that real happiness is in that mobile. But in actual fact, happiness are not in mobiles, if it were, it would be for both of you., you were yeaming for something. You made a great effort for doing something for several days or month and finally achieved it. That accomplishment’s pleasure lasts for sometime, that accomplishment feelings and sensations last for some while, then what happens after that is, thoughts , feelings and sensations starts dying. It is bound to happen, no sensation lasts, neither pain lasts nor pleasure does. They come n go.
After getting finally that, we are left with no desire at that time. Looks like we are in the sense of fulfilment. Like we finally got that thing what we wanted from life. What is that sense of fulfilment? Are there thoughts or desires at that time. Instead, remains nothing at that time. Got it? We undergo sense of fulfilment only in the absence of that all cravings. After some days, sense of lack appears again.
Are you able to understand the difference between sense of lack and fulfilment.Finally, I did that work what I wanted to do in my life. YES!! Mine goal of life has been achieved. Had great fun!! But after some days, either what you achieved seems to be less achievement or new desire forms, again as usual, you start to suffer.
Once again, for the purpose of fulfilment of desires, you undergo pain, distress, struggles for days or month or years. No idea how kind of great tortures you do with yourself. Again you get mad on achieving. Got it!!
The sense of fulfilment appeared within you, you seem to understand that happened cause of fulfilment of mobile’s desires. Are you getting this?
In actual fact, it was already existed within you. Sense of lack appears just because of mobile’s craving. You were fulfilled in your childhood, you had everything you needed. But you became unfulfilled because of that desires.
For example you are yearning and craving for that chocolate, now desires got birth in you, got started suffering, yearning for that? What happens after having that is that we undergo some sensations and what most of time happens is that you eat chocolate unconsciously? It happens, doesn’t it.
We get engaged in mobile at restaurants, we don’t eat that food consciously we were yearning for. That all has been happening at the level of conscious. After eating that chocolate, you were yearning for, what happens after that is we undergo sense of fulfilment for sometime. But it lasts for some time, cause it was not a big desire.
No matter how big your desire is, that fulfilled desires gives us temporary pleasures, doesn’t it? So we all have one great desire. And that desire is to be free. We want to be absolutely free from everything, this is what our greatest desire is. We all have that desire, don’t we? So this is our biggest desire. Wants to be absolutely free from within. Once you achieve this desire, that sense of fulfilment will be long lasting. Then you are absolute fulfilled within. No matter what happens around you, wont matter most of you. Whether you loose something or achieve, wont matter to you. . wont matter much to you whether you get failed or achieve something. You wont care of what people says about you, whether they criticise you or admire. You are absolutely fulfilled within, cause you are complete from within
What does that mean? Are you getting this? That I don’t want anything from anyone. I don’t need my son to make me happy, I don’t need my wife to make me happy. I don’t need this world to make me happy, I don’t money to make me happy. I m happy by my own nature. Cause the natural desire I have is not limited expansion, that is infinite expansion. Everybody has been doing the same thing. You are trying to expand yourself and your territory. You are trying to become more than you are right now. Everybody is doing that. Even billionaires has been doing the same thing. they are expanding their territory, areas. What if this territories turns into infinite level, what if u get it into infinite level?
I mean, if you deeply understand, that I don’t have to become more and more by achieving more or by doing more or by getting more. Cause I m infinite. We are infinite.
You are infinite whether you become something or not. If you get what I m saying, and you act according to this level, then whatever there will be is LOVE. Will be that all love.
YOU NEED TO BE A SOURCE OF YOUR OWN HAPPINESS TO BECOME A TRUE LOVER, YOU BECOME A LOVE.
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