September 10 2018

Fingers on you -Week 5 #SuperBloggerAcademy

False accusations and gossip can destroy lives, even if the accused is innocent. If your reputation is under attack ask yourself what you would like to see happen in order to clear your name. Is there anything that anyone can do that could ever make the situation better? Don’t try to address every accusation. If you decide to start defending yourself, that will become your full-time job, if you answer every story, every piece of gossip, every allegation in your life, that’s all you will ever do. You will be completely consumed by this and it will take over your life. Don’t draw attention to yourself defending the rumor. You need to give yourself permission to just live your life. If there are people out there who think something about you that you don’t like, then those won’t be your friends. There will be other people who will like and respect you for who you are, and they will be your friends. Don’t fall into the trap of acting out with non-directional frustration. The stress that comes with being wrongly accused can lead a person to act out with those closest to them, like a spouse or child. Remember that the enemy isn’t your loved one; it’s an outside force.

I am participating in the #SuperBloggerAcademy Linky party by Healthwealthbridge Dr.Amrita and allaboutthewoman.com Dr.Bushra

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September 3 2018

Not on time is not me – Week 4 #SuperBloggerAcademy

Why are people habitually late? There’s no excuse for it, and it’s incredibly rude. If you’re late once in a while, it is possible that there are legitimate extenuating circumstances. If you’re late all the time, it means you’re inconsiderate and unwilling to take the trouble to be on time. There isn’t really anything that makes it all right. You’ve inconvenienced everyone, and possibly thrown off people’s plans seriously. It just says you don’t care. It’s not that our society is time-obsessed. If someone says they’re coming over at 8PM, then I will stop what I’m doing just before time so that I can entertain my guests. Now, when that person is late, then I am sitting around wasting my time. When I have a lot of stuff to get accomplished, it’s really annoying. I hate being late to anything. Even at a party I can never be late which invariably means that I’m the first one there and I’m always standing around smiling awkwardly while the hostess is still running around on high heels and deciding on what earrings to wear. If I say I’m going to be there at 7 it means that I plan on being there at that time and it’s going to be my priority. Tardiness means you should never have committed in the first place. Sure there are emergencies, but traffic jams and parking-space scarcity are entirely foreseeable. You should budget for that too. I find myself constantly getting places too early, but it’s better than people who show up late!! Call me over passionate; I’ll just continue being a more considerate human being.

I am participating in the #SuperBloggerAcademy Linky party by Healthwealthbridge Dr.Amrita and allaboutthewoman.com Dr.Bushra

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August 28 2018

Heart – Week3 #SuperBloggerAcademy

A heart is my favourite shape because it is the symbol of humankind, of what it means to love, symbols of a unique bond, passion, desire and romance. The heart is the universal yacht of love. To give your heart, is to place your life in someone else’s hands, it is the eventual gift, without your heart, there is no life, without love there is only survival. The feelings of the heart say much more than words ever could, so much emotion is attached to it.

I am participating in the #SuperBloggerAcademy Linky party by Healthwealthbridge Dr.Amrita and allaboutthewoman.com Dr.Bushra

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August 23 2018

In secrets we Hide – Week2 #SuperBloggerAcademy

The kick to have a sense in this world which we all try but we marvel where we all should hide for the questions which we cannot find the answers. They are all secreted inside our minds, in our soul, but we try to hide them. Time finds it and releases all of its secrets hidden below so before it ruins the life you have made for yourself, releases those dark secrets and the memories will fade buried in our lives. We all have stories left untold which we didn’t want anyone to know but once somebody knows it and makes our feelings known, the struggle gets over and we reach abode.

I am participating in the #SuperBloggerAcademy Linky party by Healthwealthbridge Dr.Amrita and allaboutthewoman.com Dr.Bushra

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August 16 2018

Inspiration – Week1 #SuperBloggerAcademy

In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self.  Embrace that individual inside you that has ideas, strengths and beauty like no one else.  Be the person you know yourself to be – the best version of you – on your terms.  Above all, be true to YOU, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.  No it won’t always be easy; because when it comes to living as a compassionate, non-judgmental human being, the only challenge greater than learning to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes, is learning to walk a lifetime, comfortably in your own.

Passion is something you must be willing to express if you want to inspire others.  You can gain a lot of influence just by publicly expressing that you are excited and passionate about a topic.  Expressive passion is contagious because of the curiosity it stirs in others.  You’ll get people wondering why you love what you love so much.  Naturally, some of them will take the time necessary to understand what it is about the topic that moves you.

People watch what you do more than they listen to what you say.  Be someone worth emulating.  Most people are inspired by GREAT musicians, writers, painters, speakers, entrepreneurs, engineers, mothers, fathers, athletes, etc.  There’s only one thing they all have in common: They excel at what they do.  There’s no point in doing something if you aren’t going to do it right.  Excel at your work and excel at your hobbies.  Develop a reputation for yourself, a reputation for consistent excellence.

We are very connected to each other in various ways, the most important of which is our thoughts.  Out of fear, or passive shyness, lots of people hesitate to articulate their thoughts.  If you take the risk and say the things others are holding back, you become the glue that brings people together.

People will rarely remember what you did, but they will always remember how you made them feel.  Start noticing what you like about others and tell them.  Go out of your way to personally acknowledge and complement the people who have gone out of their way to excel.  As von Goethe once said, “Treat a man as he appears to be, and you make him worse. But treat a man as if he already were what he potentially could be, and you make him what he should be.”

Everything you need to inspire everyone around you is contained within you.  So get out there and start inspiring people with who you are and how you live your life.

I am participating in the #SuperBloggerAcademy Linky party by Healthwealthbridge Dr.Amrita and allaboutthewoman.com Dr.Bushra

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August 10 2018

10 REASONS I AM THANKFUL TO BE LIVING IN INDIA #THANKFULTHURSDAYS

On August 15, 1947, India woke up to freedom. Decades later we continue to celebrate this day when we became a free and sovereign nation. India is a land of diversity — in terms of religion, geography, culture and tradition. Though much exploited by foreign invaders we still have rich natural resources. I feel inspired and motivated by our freedom fighters.  The nation has several qualities that distinguish it from other nations of the World. There is not just one reason to feel thankful to be living in India but I feel there are endless reasons.

Here are some of the reasons why I am very much thankful to be an Indian living in my country India. 

India is a land of pluralism as there exist plurality in everything, be it religion, language, culture, political system, political parties etc. This existence of pluralism in our society is the uniqueness of India and distinguishes India from other nations. Pluralism is a unique trait of the nation where ancient traditions and modern thoughts co-exist, where animal killers and animal lovers live together, where even secularist and communalist live in coherence etc. There is no other nation in the World where pluralism exists. I am thankful to Pluralism.

The multi-party system exist in India and according to this system, there exist several parties who are capable of forming Government both in coalition or separately. The existence of multi-party system in India provides options for people to elect the best one to form the Government and also helps in effective functioning of democracy. I am thankful to Multi Party system.

Dabbawalas is a huge chain of Tiffin suppliers in Mumbai, employing more than 40% of the total population of Maharashtra. They are well known for their efficiency, despite of having no formal business degree. They have achieved 6 Sigma rating for efficiency which means that there is just one error in 6 million transactions. This is something that is to be proud about India. I am thankful to Dabbawalas.

One horned rhinoceros is found only in India and it is only found in the state of Assam. It was once found in many Asian countries but during the 19th century, it became extinct from the other countries except India and a huge population of it is found in Assam, especially in the Pobitara forest reserve and Kaziranga National Park. Many people from various parts of the World visits India to have a glimpse of this rare variety of rhino and this also helps in the growth of tourism industry of Assam. I am thankful to the One horned rhinoceros.

India is endowed with bountiful natural resources and has both renewable and non-renewable natural resources. The natural resources found in India include coal, iron ore, mica, bauxite, magnesium, natural gas, titanium ore, diamonds, petroleum, limestone and thorium. The high availability of natural resources contributes towards the economic growth and development of the nation. India ranks fourth in the world in terms of coal production. Apart from mineral resources, India is also rich in water resources and is a land that has several rivers, ocean and seas. I am thankful to the natural resources.

India has over 70,000 newspapers that are being published in India in different languages and several magazines are being published which are of different genre and languages. This indicates the growth and importance of print media. The first Indian newspaper was the Bengal Gazette, which was published in 1780 and since than we have so many different newspapers and magazines that are being published daily, fortnightly, weekly and monthly. I am thankful to newspapers and magazines.

Astrology is the oldest since of India and today, it is recognized all over the globe. The existence of astrology in India dates back to the Vedic Age. It is the study of stars and planets and their impact on our day to day life. Astrology has become a part and parcel of everyone’s life and it characterizes the personality of an individual according to the positions of the planets and stars. In India, astrology plays an important role in match-making in order to find out if the couples are compatible to get married. Astrological science predicts the future of an individual according to the positions of the planets and its importance is relevant from the birth of an individual till his death. I am thankful to Astrology. 

India is one of the most coveted health care destinations and health tourism is now a booming industry in India. People from nook and corner of the World visits India as it offers advanced health care facility at an affordable price. India has gained popularity in the health tourism as it not only offers good health care facilities but also offers amazing holiday destinations. I am thankful to the health facilities. 

Indian economy is among the fast developing and growing economies in the World and has emerged as the 3rd largest economy in Asia. Indian economy is fundamentally strong and this is the reason that India have been able to survive even during the time of recession, when the whole world was suffering from its effects. Even now, during the time of Global crisis, when the whole world is suffering, India is still going fine and the sole reason is that our economy is fundamentally strong and is capable of overcoming the problems with ease. I am thankful to the Economy. 

Despite of modernization as well as embracement of western culture, the importance of family still exists in India. Although, the joint family system is found less today, yet the importance of family system still continues to be an essential part of Indian culture. This is again an unique feature of India and it is not at surprising the children who are adults, earning, unmarried and even after marriage continues to live with their parents and the parents even continues to live with their children in their old age. The concept of old age home is still not very much developed in India and is a rare site of parents living in such homes in their old age. I am thankful to family values and ethics. 

India has faced several tribulations and yet stood firm and is developing at a very fast pace. It has developed remarkably since the time of Independence facing several issues and problems. India is My motherland and I feel proud about her. India is the best and I am proud to be born in this great nation and really thankful for I am an Indian.

Happy Independence Day to every Indian in India and elsewhere on the globe. 

This post is for #ThankfulThursdays which I am writing with Dr.Amrita healthwealthbridge.com and Tina tinabasu.com

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